How to win the girl of your dreams or how to make her fall in love with you like you already are is a question that might not have an exhausting answer. But there are not less people who will tell you what you need to do to win her. Those people can range from self-styled ‘love-gurus’, experts to even witchcraft. But before you become desperate and land into the lap of one of those, save your sanity and look at these ten tips to get that girl, because science is logic.
Here are 10 science-backed tips to get that girl. But still if you fail, you will become a better person and be with someone even more interesting.
1. Speak less
Speaking less makes you appear intelligent. And who is not in love with intelligence? Everyone is a sapiosexual even in the tiniest of amount. Don’t speak until it is absolutely necessary. Speaking more makes you look insecure and someone who is struggling for attention. It shows you are not mature enough. Speaking less makes you a great observer and analyst and you will have better things to say and better comebacks. And they will hail you as ‘man of few words’.
2. Grow up
Yes. Grow up. No one likes to be with a child who is trapped in an adult’s body. Now, growing up is not as easy as someone might say. More than age, it is circumstances that shape a person. The harder life hits you, the more you will grow. A tea selling boy in a railway station might be more grown up and have better understanding about the world than the son of a big entrepreneur brought up in a mansion. Sometimes growing up takes time. But until that happens, fake it till you make it.
3. Have a sense of responsibility towards the society
Accept responsibilities. Take care of someone. Volunteer for less fortunates. Help someone with a solution. Be involved in society building activities and become voice of those who are voiceless. A girl needs to be convinced that you are good at taking responsibilities and can take care of her.
4. Don’t be needy
Don’t be that guy who is always looking for others to sympathize with him. Rather than good, it does more harm to your personality. In the beginning she might show her care, but soon she will just avoid you and you will remain alone. Forever. So got a problem? Just face it. Conquer it. Then tell the world your success story. That works, always. Not how everything and everyone has been unfair with you.
5. Have a passion
There are more chances of a girl falling for someone who has a passion than someone whose only passion is chasing her. Whether it is music, writing, sports or collecting stones. Having a passion makes you interesting. If you are only repeating into her ears how much you love her and need her and have no life beyond her, then may the almighty take care of you. Have a passion. Be involved with something you really love. Split your life between her and your passion. Having only one side is both dangerous and stupid.
6. Be financially stable
A stable financial standing is sure to attract women. You may have seen movies, heard people and read books that claims love is more important and money is secondary, but beware. Money is equally important. But the good news is, love is still in the race. To get her, you don’t need to become a billionaire first. Just have enough that makes her feel secure. Love is not blind, certainly.
7. Grow a beard

Grow a beard, if you can. Years of studies have suggested that womn are more attracted towards barded guys than clean-shaven ones. That’s the advantage of having a beard. Beards give a crisp and rough appearance to you. Studies have shown that women see men with beards as more a husband material and someone who can take the responsibility of fatherhood of her child. They (women) find them aggressive, strong, protective and thus sexy. Also, if there is a problem, women are more likely to rush towards those who have beards. I am not sure if that’s a disadvantage or advantage.
8. Read
Read something. Anything. Researches have shown that people are more likely to fall in for someone who is a reader. So, darling, pick up a book. If you still cannot find someone falling for that reading avatar of yours, at least you will discover new pleasure if you are not a reader already. But chances are, you will find her. Also, reading makes you a superhero is making interesting conversations. It will make you more emphatic and wise. Good luck.
9. Adopt a dog or cat
Adopting a pet is a big decision, because you are entrusting yourself with the responsibility of another life which is going to depend on you for all its needs. But if you do it right, it will make you a more responsible person. And she will notice that. Eventually.
10. Know a few jokes
Keep a few jokes at handy. As they say, laughter is the best medicine. Everyone likes someone who can make him or her laugh. What a cruel curse it is to spend all your life with a boring person. Every love story starts with laughter, Laughter is magic, not anything else. So basically, improve a sense of humour. Interestingly, reading can make you a wittier person and being witty is being funny.
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