Does your girl friend make you feel more stressed that loved? And you feel like a horse that is wearing a blinder and you are allowed to see only what your girlfriend wants to let you see? Then, my friend, I can feel you. You are not the only one.
Jealousy in a relationship is normal, but sometimes, she just crosses the lines that she shouldn’t have. She makes you miserable. She questions all your actions and all your intentions. She always finds a way to blame you for something no matter how much you care to not cross her. And she ends up breaking in tears, making you the criminal though you sometimes have no clue what wrong you did. These are the signs that you are in love with a super possessive girl.
To break the signs down, here are the 10 signs that you are in love with a possessive girl..
1. Chatting with other girls is a sin
You should never ever ever be seen chatting with another girl if she is nearby. It doesn’t matter if you are just texting her to say to save a file from your office computer which yon had forgotten to do. Your girl doesn’t understand that. And even if she appears to understand, deep down, you know it's a trap and she is evil.
2. It is her fundamental right to check your phone always
She keeps checking your phone always. She doesn't get tired of it. And if, unfortunately, she finds something wrong (to her standards of course), prepare for a mock judgement day. She is the reason that you keep your browsing history erased, chats cleared and her picture on your phone's wall paper.
3. So you think your passwords to your social accounts are your private property? Think again..
She needs to breach your privacy, or you might suffocate her to death. She needs your passwords as much as she needs oxygen. She will log in to your account and read every conversation you ever had and make you give explanations.
4. You need to tell her everyday why you love her. It is always a 20 marks question
Though this question is asked almost by every girlfriend, possessive once take it to a whole new level and almost to extremism. She can through this to you anytime and anywhere. You need to be prepared for that. And beware, a kiss on the cheek and the best of your smile won't make her skip the question. You need to have a specific impressive answer and using the same answer two times is not an option though she uses the same question a thousand times.
5. You need to keep your phone on alert every time
She might call you anytime. And don't you dare to skip her call. You would rather like to have your one finger chopped off than to her complains. She would shout and scream and make you realize that you are doing terrible injustice to her while she cares and sacrifices so much for you.
6. You need to tell her everything
You need to tell her everything. Where you are. What you are doing. Are they girls. Are they unmarried. Everything that you might consider insignificant and unnecessary to know. But to her, everything makes sense. She must know everything about you. And this is slowly making you a good liar. Because you cannot just tell her everything out of privacy or out of frustration.
7. Sometimes you need to keep her on line secretly just because she wants to listen what you and your friends talk about
Sometimes, not always, she can ask you to not hung up but instead secretly allow her to listen to your conversations. This makes you terribly insecure because you know your friends are assholes and can utter anything. You just pray inside your heart that they just don't say something that might threaten your life.
8. She will diminish and ultimately kill your social life
She perhaps has no social life or perhaps she chose to leave her social life and now, she takes all measures to make sure that neither should you have one. Anywhere you go without her, she would call you and you need to keep talking to her while your friends stare at you in rage. Goodbye social life!
9. She needs to know all your friends. Specially the girls
She needs to know all your friends by name and everyone should know her too. Especially the girls. She will get all touchy when you are among your female friends so that they should know you are taken.
10. You can't sleep early
If you love her, prove that. How? Talk with her. Late into the night even if you are half dead and lost in dreams. You need to talk with her about absurd topics and sometimes you doze off while typing a text, only to wake up later to realize you were dead for a while. You hope it's just a while. But the clock shows, you were sleeping for 30 minutes. Of course it has consequences.
11. You get scolded for looking at another woman
12. She threatens to harm herself
She threatens to harm herself on every tiny difference. And boy, she doesn't just say that. You cannot take the chance of taking it as a bluff. You know she has the capacity to do that. She has done it before and she won't think twice to do it again.
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